If your best friend asked you what you want in a partner, would your answer look something like this?
Genuine interest in who I am as a person
Respect, honesty, commitment
Shared values and goals
Great communication
Amazing sex!
These ideas are great in theory, in practice, they lead to loneliness and heartbreak.
It’s not that these are bad, but wanting these alone will never help you get what you want because they are generic.
They don’t relate to your specific needs. You never looked for a relationship that left you feeling unheard, ghosted or cheated on.
So why have you found yourself in those types of situations repeatedly?
It’s easy to blame modern dating, or your partners.
Remember, you were at the heart of every bad relationship you’ve ever had.
There’s a simple problem at the heart of all of your relationship challenges.
Those ideas are the Oprah version of what you need.
They sound great on paper but they leave you single, or in an unhealthy relationship.
Your true needs are complicated and messy.
One part of you might require the safety of commitment while another part can’t live without excitement and adventure.
One part of you may desire the comfort of stability while another part is drawn to deep, dangerous passion.
Some aspects of your life may bring out the part of you that's an introvert, and others the extravert.
If you ignore any of these parts of yourself, relationship problems will follow you like the tag on your shirt.
The unexpressed and ignored parts of yourself will sabotage your relationships and your happiness.
They will attract toxic partners, sabotage otherwise healthy relationships, and cause all types of chaos until they are seen and expressed.
But it’s time to break that cycle…
Astrology is a map of your entire life.
Your strengths, your weaknesses, your career, your friends, your relationships, what makes you happy, what makes you miserable, and much much more.
It’s really amazing how much of your life can show up in a single chart.
Using astrology, I can look deeply at the specific archetypes that influence your life and relationships.
I have a no-nonsense approach to astrology and my clients.
I will love you enough to tell you the uncomfortable truths because that’s what is required to break free of painful patterns. Readings are very personal and can be emotionally intense.
Both of these are part of the healing process.
Together, we will talk about how your archetypes have played out in your past in helpful and problematic ways.
It’s equally important to understand both.
This will allow us to clarify your needs, even the seemingly contradictory ones.
At this stage of the reading, you will understand why past or current relationships struggled.
But understanding the past isn’t enough.
We have to answer the most fundamental question, what do you need to be happy in relationships?
How else could you create healthy relationships?
We will use the planets and signs to help you clearly understand what a healthy expression of these parts really looks like.
When two seemingly contradictory needs show up, how could an expression of both play out in a way that leaves you feeling whole.
If you’re ready to finally understand how to have healthy, enjoyable relationships, sign up for your reading below.